Cuddle Parties

Cuddle Party Rules and Code of Conduct

Our parties are an adult only safe space for people to cuddle and to chat in a PG rated manner.

Here are a few things that you need to know about how we run cuddle parties and about behaviour. It is expected that you have read these rules and agree to abide by them during Polywood events.

Consent is mandatory. Ask for consent before touching another person. For example: 

“Is it okay if I put my hand/head/etc/ here?”

“Is this okay?”

“May I massage you?”

Only “Yes” means yes. Answer honestly. Your presence here does not mean that you automatically grant anyone else access to your body. If someone turns you down, accept it gracefully and move on. It’s not a reflection of you, we just each have different and shifting needs and wants and may not be in a place to accept your offer. Harassment will not be tolerated. Examples of how to say no:

“No, thank you.”

“No, but you can <insert counter proposal you are comfortable with>.”

Erections happen. Think of them as Mother Nature’s thumbs up. It means the person is enjoying what you are doing. Be proud of your accomplishments.

​Emotions happen. We are often touch starved and getting this important physical and psychological need met can bring emotions out. Be proud of your accomplishments.

No sex. Cuddling and caressing can be very sensual, however, sex is not allowed at Polywood cuddle parties.

In order to facilitate a safe space where people can feel comfortable, we ask that you do not talk about specifics of cuddle party attendees and activities.

Polywood endeavours to create an open, welcoming, and safe place for people of all ethnicities, all backgrounds, and all gender expressions. Homophobic, transphobic, racist, sexist, body shaming, and/or sex shaming remarks and attitudes will not be tolerated.